5 IMPORTANT FACTORS THAT DESTROYS MARRIAGES

Good day fellow blog post readers and lovers, once again you are welcome to a new motivational post. Today's post give vivid details on factors that destroys marriage just as quick as possible. Marriage is an ordinance from God. Its a fore known plan of God to bring a man and a woman together. Marriage is a school where one has to get in and learn, its also a prerequisite to reproducing, which was also part of Gods divine plan during creation,its also an institute that tells if you are responsible or one is just a joker.
Lately, study has been carried out statistically, and it was obtained that 65% of homes has been broken,and they are factor based.

Handling marital issues can be tasking,and breath taking, but with God all things are possible. Holding to the fact that in a marriage institute, they have got to be ups and down,obviously they are inevitable, its dependent on how they are been handled when they come that makes the difference.
Some destructive factors has to be cubed, 5 of which are stated below.

CRITICISM

When both parties takes to criticizing themselves, then they ain't going to make it that far in their marriage,because they are never going to please themselves. Criticizing your partner isn't a good practice in marriage and should be eradicated totally, you as the husband learn to appreciate your wife at all time. same goes to the wife, learn to appreciate your husband even at his minute effort to please you, it can go a long way to settle your marriage. now am not saying scolding is not allowed, definitely you should scold your wife when shes wrong, more you scold your husband when he's wrong, but there is a greater difference between scolding and criticizing, you don't criticize someone you love, at all!! instead you scold, and you don't just scold but you scold with love and in love, this make a whole lot of marital sense of humor.

THIRD PARTY INTERFERENCE

Marriage is an ordain practices for a man and a woman,not a man,a woman, and their families.it is advised that as a newly wedded partners, decisions, plans and other important things shouldn't be dictated by a third party, be it a close friend or a best friend, or probably a childhood friend. if both of you can't take a full grounded decision on family affairs, then its an open door to getting a crashed marriage, because the bedrock of a marriage is decision making, decision has to be taken per time just as the journey of no return continues, even though the world has made the marriage institution a journey you can start and end anytime you want, How pathetic!!, this decision taken if positive are solely what keeps the marriage going.
If families (parent, friend,...) are allowed to be the standard for taking decision in a marriage, trust me the marriage is half way dead. so as a newly married couple, or about take note of this factor to getting the best out of your marriage.

LIVING ABOVE STANDARD

This is one out of numerous factors that ruin a marriage. situation where the standard of living in a marriage is raised above what the family, or both spouse can keep up to then, obviously they have got to be problem as time goes on. now for a marriage to stand, the financial status of both parties must be weighed and checked by both parties, doing that, decisions on how to manage their finance would definitely come, that's only if they know what is best for them, and are not ready to make their marriage a place where the standard of living is more than what they bring in as income. if in a marriage this is visible, then in a matter of time, keeping up becomes difficult and at such strife in marriage sets in. hence if you want the best in your marriage do well to live a life that what goes off in the marriage as expenses and other irregular spending is less than what comes in. you don't have to be lascivious just to impress a fellow mate or co-friends or workers, instead invest in the financial stability of you marriage

LACK OF AFFECTION

If after marriage the affection you get to show your spouse has depreciated or probably devalued by either parties or giving prior to irrelevant things, then the marriage is at a set back. your affection for your spouse should grow stronger everyday, instead of depreciating.
What keeps the marriage going is affection and love shown to each other. the moment that ceases in a marriage then its no sermon that one way or the other the marriage if not handled well would fail

SETTING PRIORS OVER YOUR SPOUSE

If in a marriage career, hobbies, and other related priors are taken serious than your better half, then you are on the verge of breaking your marriage up. if you wait until when your wife begs for your attention in you marriage life, then you are open to losing her any moment soon, same things goes for the wife, if you as a person makes your husband begs for your attention and care, obviously you might make him cheat on you. Many has jeopardized their marriages due to lack of understanding and patience, if in a marriage relationship amidst both parties understanding and patience is missing, then the marriage is doomed to fail as soon as possible.
Treat your spouse with all you have got,and make her feel he/she is your number one.

Remember you can not have a perfect spouse or better half,but you can always work together and make yourselves better, and a better parent with a perfect home raising better children for the society.

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