Have you Been avoided or snubbed by a friend? One thing that can be so painful is having your friends always cutting you short during conversations and immediately letting you go. sometimes you just sit back without having to know the reason why.
There are always a reasons for everything and in order to change a situation you must understand the cause of the situation itself. One painful thing that can happen to anybody is to find out people don’t enjoy being around them or that they’re been avoided. It can be a great torture, especially if you can’t seem to understand why.
For you to be snubbed by a friend or avoided by a friend, it has to be factor based, because it just don't happen overnight, most times it all starts gradually, at first, to you it might seem to be a normal mood swing that your friend had to portray for the time been. As time goes on you notice it has become a routine, he or she just keep snubbing you without you knowing what actually went wrong between you guys, you don't have to worry, we would be sharing some possible factors that might bring up such attitude from a very good friend of yours.
Before we get to share the possible causes or factors, why a friend can avoid, or snub you, it is best we give you the best solution to know why he or she puts up such attitude, and that solution is walking up to him or her with boldness and ask without fear "why such person keeps avoiding you", trust me it is always the best thing to do, if he or she doesn't open up why he/she does that, then you can conclude on your own path; that you have tried your best.
Very quickly i would want to differentiate what snubbing and been Avoided means practically. Now snubbing occurs when you see a friend, a very good friend though, walking down your path, and you gave him/her an obvious greetings without hesitations, if after greeting him/her you are so sure you guys have a visible eye contact, and he/she just ignored intentionally that is a practical example of snubbing, just be certain he/ she doesn't want to talk to you. While been avoided is an attitude a friend gives even after responding to your greetings, he/she just keeps hanging you up during conversations or just giving you this "i don't care attitude". Listed below are possible reasons Why a friend may ignore you.
REASONS WHY FRIENDS MAY AVOID YOU
1.TALKING TOO MUCH
Me personally am not a big fan of a person that talks too much without control. if you as a person you have this characteristics of talking too much, you would always be a victim of been snubbed and avoided by friends. Been reserved makes you appreciated by friends, it makes friends want to always hear your opinions on matters that needs to be settled or talked about. so if you talk too much is an obvious reason why friends may always avoid you.
2. NAGGING
Nagging is really a bad attitude that kills friendships, if you are a kind of person that just nags on everything, without giving at least a minimum privacy to a friend, can be vexing. you ought to eradicate the nagging attitude to keep friend from avoiding you. if you wouldn't want your friends to avoid or keep away from you, then don't nag too much, just show relevant concern about a friend without nagging.
3.YOU LIE TOO MUCH
In a circle of friends, we all have this friend that exaggerates during discussions, this so called friend gives a simple illustration, or a past life experience, or event, adding unnecessary flavor to make it sound good in other to impress or get appraisals. you would agree with me, that as time goes on you end up knowing the whole truth, and eventually tagging that friend that exaggerates without caution to be the odd egg in the circle. This is also an obvious reason why friends may ignore you if this is your own attitude.
4. BEEN PARASITIC
Nobody wants to be around a parasitic friend, a friend that just wants the best for only himself, without showing concern about what goes wrong with the other fellow. lately friends have become so parasitic that all they want is how to always extort you, without having to give back. if this is your attitude don't be surprise if you are been avoided by friends. don't ever be a friend that extort, but be a friend with good benefit.

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