Making or meeting new friend is good, its a stands that makes you feel okay to share your problem or idea with a new personality, that is trusted. It gives you an edge of reliance and confidence to express how you feel, what you are going through, or what you went through to either encourage or get the other party better. So you see its a no brainier to say one shouldn't have friends and not just friend a good one at it, because there is a popular saying that a friend in need is a friend indeed if well quoted though.
So keeping friends to a remarkable review is real good and tested to be beneficial, but the big question to always ask is "how well have i been positively impacted by my friend?" "Am i a step ahead since i started working with this new friend or probably an old friend of mine?" "Am i on the part of achieving my goals soon, be it the short term goal or long term goals?" rhetorical questions though.
Let go ahead a define what a true friend is, A true friend is one who stands for you even in those odd times when its seems life is messy, but checking through what friendship status as amount to, one cannot vouch for a true friend that can stand for him or her during messy times, when it seems like all hope is gone. all we get to see are friends who tend to give excuses to withhold assistance.
A friend is one who when you are heading down the wrong path he or she is ever ready and sensitive to pull you back, and pull you through the right path. A true friend is never an opportunist, he or she doesn't just extort, but appreciate the giving attitude, and not just settle for what to always get. checking through the calibers of people that call themselves friends around us, if thoroughly checked, they are individuals who are just after what can benefit them and them alone without a second thought of what they can always give out, they are people that give and in return what 10-times what they have given.
Note the moment you beg for a friends attention trust me its not worth it, because a friend opt his or her own convenience to put a smile on a persons face, so if at some point when you beg to be attended to by a so called best or proposed to be best friend, you just have to head somewhere else to settle for a real friend. because a true friend is ever available. That's more reason why you ought to drop friends that does not add positive impact to you upbringing, because its not worth the time wastage.
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Why You Should Drop Friends That Does Not Add To You Positively
To Avoid Chattered Dreams
Are you interested in keeping your dreams alive and not allowing it chattered by a friend or group of friends the best thing to always do is weigh the kind of friend you keep at the moment, if actually they are friends with like minds. if after checking through, they are friends with corruptible influence, please do well to say a capital No to their friendship.
To Achieve Progress
If for anything in the word you want to be progressive at what you do, then you must drop unnecessary friends that obviously serve as weight that can retard your progress. friends without value can hinder ones progress just as one journey through life hurdles, because there are times when you need to be encouraged and all you get is discouragement from friends, that can be retarding to ones progress. Hence, to achieving greatness you ought to drop friends that doesn't add positive value to you
NOTE: keeping wrong friends can be detrimental to ones future and goals, if you wish to keep you dreams and ambitions alive, its best to keep the right sets of friends around you. study shows that and average individual is either affected positively or negatively by a friend. so many friends has killed dreams, so many friends as betrayed. so watch the kind of frind you keep today to avoid you dreams being battered.
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